h.kandola

let your past make you better, not bitter...

Once upon a time, there was a little boy who always wanted to love another little boy. One day, he finally found that love, and it was wonderful. I’m supposed to use gloves, I’m supposed to do this, I’m supposed to do that, I’m supposed to not kiss him. I’m not supposed to be only 45 years old and taking care of a 35 year-old young man who’s a hundred years old and dying. Em calls it a see-saw - he’s fine, he gets sick, he gets better, he gets sicker. He’s afraid I’ll leave him. I told him I wouldn’t leave him. That I never, for one second, would think of leaving him. But he doesn’t believe me. It’s hard to believe in much these days. But we must never stop believing in each other. I’m a mess. It’s what I am. You cry and you cry until you think you can’t cry anymore. And then you cry some more. Not only for yourself and Felix, but for all the little boys who finally found other little boys they’ve wanted all their lives now that we’re men.

(Source: markoruffalo, via sociolab)

YES
I’m sick of white people using the illusion of “reverse racism”. That’s why when a minority stands up for themselves and challenges your level of comfort, there is an uproar. When in fact, we live in a permanent state of discomfort so that you can relish in your comfort. But no more, we’re all equal despite any race, gender, sexual orientation or any other category constructed by society to uphold this illusionary hierarchy. It’s not a fight to the top, it’s just about being on equal playing fields.

YES
I’m sick of white people using the illusion of “reverse racism”. That’s why when a minority stands up for themselves and challenges your level of comfort, there is an uproar. When in fact, we live in a permanent state of discomfort so that you can relish in your comfort. But no more, we’re all equal despite any race, gender, sexual orientation or any other category constructed by society to uphold this illusionary hierarchy. It’s not a fight to the top, it’s just about being on equal playing fields.

ccmadbox:

i live in constant struggle between “you’re wrong” and “but i don’t want to start shit”

(via sociolab)

Unique’s cover of “if I were a boy” on Glee S5E5, took my breath away. If only everyone loved without conditions…

kawaiigod:

ppl think im shy cause i dont talk much in person but actually im just coolin it scanning the situation, watchin from the cut, making mental moves constantly.

(Source: zootedboy, via uh-man-duhsauer)

benpaddon:

The phrase “words to live by” gets thrown around often these days, but these are absolutely words to live by.

(Source: c-mines, via undisclosedlight)